It’s every parent’s dilemma — how involved is TOO involved to be in your child’s education?
On the one hand, you want them to be self-sufficient, and a self-motivated learner. On the other hand, you also want them to be college ready, and are scared that — left to their own devices — they won’t progress fast enough to be college-ready.
Megan and Gretchen discuss elementary, middle, and high school parenting, and share a list of guidelines for how to support your student while still nurturing their self-sufficiency. Included in the conversation:
- when should parents intervene with teachers and the school, and when should they let students figure it out themselves
- how to support students with homework
- when do you let students solve problems for themselves, and when do you solve them for them,
- and more!
Gretchen also shares some wisdom from the book How to Raise an Adult: Break Free of the Overparenting Trap and Prepare Your Kid for Success by Julie Lythcott-Haims.
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